Please inform me, how does love find you?

I can only speak as an older man who was once 15. I never had a girldfriend until I was much older because I was shy and no girl was interested in me. When I graduated from highschool most of my buddies were getting married while I still couldn't find a girl interested in me. The fact is there were a few girls who were interested but they were shy also and I felt sorry for myself. In my 20s I finally met a wonderful girl with a good career. .